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Our new son Charlie was born on Saturday! He is Chinese, born here in America--his birth parents chose us partly because of our involvement in the China adoption process. All of the reasons we initially chose Chinese international adoption ended up making us a perfect fit for this little guy. This is a fully open adoption--we spent an emotional hour with his extremely wonderful birth parents getting to know them before they made the difficult choice to place him with us. His name Charlie comes from his birth parents; I believe it's an approximate homophone of his Chinese name, Jialin.

Charlie is perfect in our eyes, but he was born without his left forearm. For this reason we've given him the middle name Nelson, after Admiral Nelson, our favorite one-armed hero. (Apparently there's a Transformer with a gun for an arm but I vetoed his new daddy's request to name him Shockwave).

This opportunity came to us the day after I returned home from 4th Street Fantasy Con, severely lacking in sleep and high on days of writerly bliss. When we got the call saying to come to Indianapolis, we flew around the house packing like crazy and going "oh my god oh my god!" I was so excited I carelessly packed the checkbook in the wrong bag, and since agency and lawyer fees would be due at placement we couldn't leave until I found it. "Lawyers, Guns and Money" got played in the car a lot on the way down (thank you, PNH, for playing it at 4th Street and giving me the right earworm for the event). But ultimately everything worked out perfectly.

Introducing Charles Nelson Jialin Dell - our Charlie:


Photoset Here

Date: 2008-06-27 03:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gryphynshadow.livejournal.com
Wow! That's so fabulous, congratulations! I'm smiling and jumping up and down for you, in total glee.

Enjoy the new baby! He'll grow up so fast... and he looks so cute!

Date: 2008-06-27 03:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ashnistrike.livejournal.com
Congratulations!!!!!!!!

We are, as I type, sitting in the hospital with S on a low-level pitocin drip, expecting RJEB some time tomorrow. Babies all around!

Date: 2008-06-27 03:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kathryn-ironic.livejournal.com
Congratulations!

Date: 2008-06-27 03:40 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] aedifica
Congratulations! Wow!

Date: 2008-06-27 03:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kouredios.livejournal.com
Oh my god oh my god!

So, so happy for you. He's beautiful.

Date: 2008-06-27 04:37 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] beamjockey.livejournal.com
All three of you are beginning a new life. May it be long and happy!

Date: 2008-06-27 04:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tania-c.livejournal.com
Mazel tov! How wonderful for all of you, congratulations on the addition to your family.

::dancing the happy dance for the Dell family::

Date: 2008-06-27 06:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] speakertomgrs.livejournal.com
Congratulations, that is one really beautiful child. May the love among you three grow through all the many years you have together.

Date: 2008-06-27 12:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] readinggeek451
Congratulations! That's wonderful. May you have many happy years together.

Date: 2008-06-27 12:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neutronjockey.livejournal.com
Oh WOW!
Congratulations new Mom and Dad!

Date: 2008-06-27 01:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fledgist.livejournal.com
Congratulations!! Now remember the two important things about being a new parent:

(1) Babies are more resilient than you think.

(2) Catch what sleep you can.

(2a) Baby boys can aim.

Date: 2008-06-27 01:55 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] mmerriam.livejournal.com
Congrats to you all!

Date: 2008-06-27 02:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] serge-lj.livejournal.com
Let me be the first to congratulate...
What?
Oh.

WooHooh!!!

Date: 2008-06-27 02:17 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Congratulations!

Date: 2008-06-27 02:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] redrose3125.livejournal.com
(That was me, from ML)

Date: 2008-06-27 02:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pmrabble.livejournal.com
Fabulous!

Date: 2008-06-27 03:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] txanne.livejournal.com
Oh, he's beautiful! Congratulations!

Yay!

Date: 2008-06-27 04:24 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Congratulations! He's adorable.
Sarah (From ML)

Date: 2008-06-27 04:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unhappytriad.livejournal.com
Congratulations to all!

Date: 2008-06-28 03:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asyouknow-bob.livejournal.com
Yay! A baby!

Date: 2008-06-28 04:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elisem.livejournal.com
Yay yay YAY! Congratulations to all of you!

Date: 2008-06-28 05:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirrorshard.livejournal.com
What a beautiful baby!

(Sam Kelly, from ML.)

Date: 2008-06-28 11:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kalmn.livejournal.com
eeeee! he has squinchy little knees! i want to bite them!

yay! congratulations! woo!

Date: 2008-06-30 03:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] marydell.livejournal.com
Thanks! And whaddya know, this adoption thing really does work!

Date: 2008-06-29 04:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cloudscudding.livejournal.com
Congratulations on your new son!

Date: 2008-06-29 04:52 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] boxofdelights
Holy cow! Congratulations!

(Met you at 4th Street, while you and Betsy were talking about adoption, ironically enough!)

Date: 2008-06-29 08:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aitchellsee.livejournal.com
WOW! Congratulations on the arrival of your new Dell!

Harriet (from ML)

Date: 2008-06-30 01:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tnh.livejournal.com
A baby! Congratulations! He's beautiful. I'd wish you joy of him, but that's already evident from the pictures.

More joy, then.

Date: 2010-10-14 04:15 pm (UTC)

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