Rather than try to do a whole developmental roundup, I'm going to do small ones on one thing at a time, because otherwise I'll never get around to it, and I do want this blog to be useful to parents of other kids with challenges similar to Charlie's.
So, he's significantly delayed on speech, but the docs think it's a "soft delay" (one that should eventually resolve itself) brought on by temporary hearing troubles and over-dependence on his pacifier. Also he stayed in the infant room at day care a lot longer than he would have if he had been walking on the expected (by day care) schedule. Now that he's in the toddler room surrounded by talkers, he's got about 6 words that he uses regularly, at least when prompted, and 15 or so that we hear from time to time. Plus a lot of babbling. We blew bubbles out in the yard yesterday and he said "bubble bubble bubble!" over and over, and he understands that "bubble" and "ba-ba" are different words. He also understands complex sentences, like "can you put the clothes back in the drawer now?" and "I want you to come over here and take your medicine without a fuss...one....two...three...ok, now we do this the hard way..." He hasn't said any sentences, even short ones, consistently but he's making progress. We're up in the air about speech therapy--we'll see how he does over the next couple of weeks. He's making good progress, finally, but he's frustrated a lot of the time and can be aggressive (particularly with Mommy, boo), and having almost no words can't be helping.
We made a little video of him showing off his words. He has not seen the Simpsons, by the way, but has picked up a bit of its vocabulary from us, because we are Simpsons nuts.
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